An evolving list of the most helpful books, websites, and other resources that have helped us continue our honest conversations and experiences with each other.

Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha
The Monogamy Gap by Eric Anderson
Love in Abundance by Kathy Labriola
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt
Polyamory in the 21st Century by Deborah Anapol
A Billion Wicked Thoughts by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam
The Threesome Handbook by Vicki Vantoch
The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin
Dan Savage's "Savage Love" podcast, online column, and blog
"Sex Nerd Sandra" podcast and blog
"Life on the Swingset" podcast and website
"Sex is Fun" podcast and website by Kidder Kaper, Laura Rad, Gay Rick, and Coochie
Good Vibes, the awesome sex store in the Bay Area, has a wonderful website with great how-to information about toys, BDSM, and fetishes

Franklin Veaux's More Than Two website and blog has amazing resources on poly issues and topics

The Modern Poly website is chock-full of other awesome poly resources and poly-focused blogs

The Forum is a great place to meet other poly folks, and give and receive support on common poly challenges and situations

The Kinsey Institute does research on sexual health and knowledge: it is amazing!!

Also- many of our favorite blogs are on our profile under the blogs we follow. Check them out and show them love! :-)

K has started to guest blog for DatingAdvice. She does not endorse any of the other advice articles on the site, but welcomes you to check it out!